About Me:
Single, over-60, SW England resident, with fairly wide range of interests & musical tastes - but I'd be no good in a pub quiz 'cos I know very little about TV, gadgets called i-something, competitive sports, many entertainments & "so-called celebrities!
Was on EP, but left it long before it closed. Won't touch Facebook & its ilk.
"Adult" themes: quite broad-minded, like nudity but not pornography. Against cruelty, and consider spanking as a game for consenting adults only.
Regan Porter
Welcome Regan.
Would you like to tell us a little more about yourself - interests etc?
Regards,
Durdle.
July 30, 2016
Regan Porter
Was on EP myself but left it after parts of it became just too sleazy & stupid.
Was blocked by one contributor after I'd revealed his was a front for a commercial alien-and-conspiracy outfit who were so terrified of being exposed as the fraud it pretty obviously was, that most of its web-site home page was an aggressive (and probably meaningless) legal threat notice against attackers etc.!
September 1, 2016
Mukydaz
Welcome Mukydaz!
Curious - I oppose spanking children yet now 64 sometimes desire a traditional OTK, hand spanking (no weapons) as I might have but did not receive (or want!) in boyhood, for failings persisting from that time (1950s-60s).
Best Wishes,
Durdle
July 29, 2016
Mukydaz
I regard punishment as a result of being naughty, rude or whatever, i.e breaking the discipline that is the behaviour code designed to help a child grow up decently; and punishment is not necessarily physical. In fact preferably not physical, and certainly not with any sort of weapons others on AM gleefully boast of using on even very young children. Punishment means penalty or sanction of any type, not beating!
I would guess that if you are going to spank someone in punishment the hand should suffice to make the point, especially when combined with the general air of humiliation and powerlessness, even if you don't pull the pants or knickers down.
I imagine too that a spanking would have to be reasonably calm and controlled so it doesn't spill over into a frenzied attack or mere cruelty - but I deplore the practice I have seen described, of delaying the punishment.
I suppose that a traditional spanking is satisfying in being fairly quick and over-&-done with; no dragging on in bitterness for days as might be involved by cancelling some treat or party or day-out.
How does one avoid the risk of becoming aroused by the private prurience of pants-down punishment spankings?
As I say it is odd that I don't like the idea of spanking children but sometimes feel I need to be spanked as a 1960s boy, bottom bared by a sincere disciplinarian, as he or she would have spanked me some 50-odd years ago.
Best Wishes,
Durdle
July 29, 2016
Bez
Thank you very much for the compliment of a Friend Request, Andy - I accept!
Best Wishes,
Durdle.
July 29, 2016
Bez
Thank you Andy. Despite a lot of development Weymouth is still generally pleasant, but for the moment at least it's no longer a cross-Channel port. The Council spent a fortune and worked hard to repair the harbour wall for the fast-catamaran ferry that had been operating for quite a long time - then the company bought a new boat to big for Weymouth Harbour, and moved to Poole!
Cheers,
Durdle
July 29, 2016
nmom
Nmom - it's a beautiful country, Norway, especially if you explore both inland and the fjords (most British tourists only go on the coastal cruises and don't see the interior).
Fascinated by spanking since a boy, when I certainly would not have wanted spanking, and oppose beating children... Yet now in early-60s want sometimes to experience the decades-late but appropriate firm hand - not weapon - for failings originating from boyhood; as a sort of therapy or punitive relief,
Best Wishes,
Durdle.
July 29, 2016
Sprklingwind
You should find friends on here... It helps to join a few groups of interest.
Welcome Regan. Would you like to tell us a little more about yourself - interests etc? Regards, Durdle.
Was on EP myself but left it after parts of it became just too sleazy & stupid. Was blocked by one contributor after I'd revealed his was a front for a commercial alien-and-conspiracy outfit who were so terrified of being exposed as the fraud it pretty obviously was, that most of its web-site home page was an aggressive (and probably meaningless) legal threat notice against attackers etc.!
Welcome Mukydaz! Curious - I oppose spanking children yet now 64 sometimes desire a traditional OTK, hand spanking (no weapons) as I might have but did not receive (or want!) in boyhood, for failings persisting from that time (1950s-60s). Best Wishes, Durdle
I regard punishment as a result of being naughty, rude or whatever, i.e breaking the discipline that is the behaviour code designed to help a child grow up decently; and punishment is not necessarily physical. In fact preferably not physical, and certainly not with any sort of weapons others on AM gleefully boast of using on even very young children. Punishment means penalty or sanction of any type, not beating! I would guess that if you are going to spank someone in punishment the hand should suffice to make the point, especially when combined with the general air of humiliation and powerlessness, even if you don't pull the pants or knickers down. I imagine too that a spanking would have to be reasonably calm and controlled so it doesn't spill over into a frenzied attack or mere cruelty - but I deplore the practice I have seen described, of delaying the punishment. I suppose that a traditional spanking is satisfying in being fairly quick and over-&-done with; no dragging on in bitterness for days as might be involved by cancelling some treat or party or day-out. How does one avoid the risk of becoming aroused by the private prurience of pants-down punishment spankings? As I say it is odd that I don't like the idea of spanking children but sometimes feel I need to be spanked as a 1960s boy, bottom bared by a sincere disciplinarian, as he or she would have spanked me some 50-odd years ago. Best Wishes, Durdle
Thank you very much for the compliment of a Friend Request, Andy - I accept! Best Wishes, Durdle.
Thank you Andy. Despite a lot of development Weymouth is still generally pleasant, but for the moment at least it's no longer a cross-Channel port. The Council spent a fortune and worked hard to repair the harbour wall for the fast-catamaran ferry that had been operating for quite a long time - then the company bought a new boat to big for Weymouth Harbour, and moved to Poole! Cheers, Durdle
Nmom - it's a beautiful country, Norway, especially if you explore both inland and the fjords (most British tourists only go on the coastal cruises and don't see the interior). Fascinated by spanking since a boy, when I certainly would not have wanted spanking, and oppose beating children... Yet now in early-60s want sometimes to experience the decades-late but appropriate firm hand - not weapon - for failings originating from boyhood; as a sort of therapy or punitive relief, Best Wishes, Durdle.
You should find friends on here... It helps to join a few groups of interest.